(He is really good looking but, mysteriously, has been single for many years.) We drank too much and kissed. He is slightly older and also identifies as heterosexual. He offered me a drink and we ended up getting drunk. We are both architects and I went to see some of his latest work. We were good mates then, but nothing more. One night, after an office dinner party, I went to my colleague’s flat. The dilemma I am a 30-year-old man and I had, until last year, identified as a straight man.
